“Everybody was like: ‘What’s happening? Is this your date? I don’t understand. Why is this guy here?’” Ms. Saint John said. “It was such a beautiful, human moment,” one that was chronicled on her Instagram account, @badassboz, where she has more than 40,000 followers.
“We’re all rushing in our lives, and I was so concerned with getting from here to there, and if not for the moment of humanity where we just started talking, that connection would not have happened,” she said. “What a miss that would have been. What a miss!”
This story was part of what convinced Arianna Huffington, a founder of The Huffington Post and a high-profile member of Uber’s board, that Ms. Saint John was the right person to shepherd Uber out of its recent thicket of legal and ethical scandals.
The two women first met at a dinner in Las Vegas last January hosted by Kristin Lemkau, the chief marketing officer of JPMorgan Chase. “We had an instant connection,” Ms. Huffington said. That night, she posted a photo of herself with her arm around a beaming Ms. Saint John on Instagram with the hashtag #thecoolkidsdinner.” The next month, Ms. Huffington attended Ms. Saint John’s 40th birthday party in Los Angeles. (Another Instagram opportunity: “Hard to imagine what she’ll do by 50!” she posted.)
“Sometimes it takes you months to get to know someone,” Ms. Huffington said. “With her, I felt like she has this incredible capacity for intimacy and for sharing her story and for sharing others’ stories.”
And, Ms. Huffington said, “She’s great at social media.”
Indeed, while women have long feared that putting family pictures on their desks might impede their climb up the corporate ladder, Ms. Saint John has broken the glass frame: posing in a bikini with her “baddies” on a beach; snapping a selfie as her daughter, now 8, tags along on a business trip; and posting the last red-carpet photo she took with her husband, Peter Saint John, who died of Burkitt lymphoma in 2013.
“I’ve been told that I overshare,” she said. “Sometimes I get criticized for it, but how else would I be if not all of me?”
Ms. Saint John knows it might seem overly calculating of Uber, which has been accused of fostering a hostile work environment for women, to hire an African-American single mother to make over its public image. She doesn’t care. “To me, there’s no sense of tokenism because I know I can do the job — I’m qualified to do the job, I can do a great job,” she said. “Being present as a black woman — just present — is enough to help exact some of the change that is needed and some that we’re looking for.”
She amplifies this presence with statement-making ensembles like the ruffled, lilac Marni skirt and crop top, gold-encrusted Chanel purse and stiletto heels she wore on a recent morning at Uber’s San Francisco office. “That’s my own personal thing,” Ms. Saint John said of her interest in fashion, so distinct from the hoodie aesthetic around her.
She has stood out from the crowd since her family settled in Colorado Springs when she was 12, after an itinerant childhood spent in Connecticut, Washington D.C., Kenya and Ghana, where her father was a member of the Parliament from 1979 until the 1981 coup d’état there. Her mother designed and sold clothes and ensured that Ms. Saint John and her three younger sisters stayed connected to their culture, especially once they moved to the Southwest.
“The first few months were really hard,” Ms. Saint John said. “Having a name that people can’t pronounce” — it’s BOZE-mah — “having a mom that refused to serve pizza on Friday nights when friends came over. She was like, ‘No you’re going to have this pepper soup, I don’t care if you’re sweating.’” (She’s come to appreciate that steadfastness: Accepting an award at an arts fund-raiser hosted by Russell Simmons this month, Ms. Saint John thanked her mother for ingraining her love of African culture.)
Ms. Saint John became captain of the cheerleading squad and track team. In her sophomore year, she ran for student council under the tagline “Ain’t Nothin’ but a Boz Thing,” inspired by her anthem of the moment, Dr. Dre’s “Nuthin’ but a ‘G’ Thang.”
“I just thought it was so cool, but nobody got it,” she said. She lost, “but it was a great lesson — you need to connect on your audience’s level, not on your own.”
Ms. Saint John attended Wesleyan University, ostensibly to prepare for becoming a doctor but managing to teach a class on Tupac Shakur, with a professor’s supervision, in her spare time. She got into medical school but lobbied her parents for a yearlong sabbatical. “They agreed, which was their mistake,” she said.
How can you help? Empowered Living Inc.'s production of the Vagina Monologue has the main goal to raise awareness while raising funds to assist those in need. With the monies raised, we can offer services such as mental health therapy for free or at subsidized pricing. Empowered Living Inc. is an excellent resource and we are working to change our community so that this epidemic can be slowed down and eventually eliminated.
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One of the most common forms of startup financing is family and friends funding. It usually comes after or in tandem with the entrepreneur invests their savings or uses their credit cards to fund their idea. Family and friends funding happens before a bank or angel investor would show interest. Family and friends are typically an entrepreneur's best opportunity to secure money. They are usually investing in the entrepreneur more so than the idea.
Someone in your direct connection group may also be able to offer more than money. After assessing their strengths, an entrepreneur can consider bringing them on board as a board member or advisor. This can be a helpful way to engage their talents and lead to further business introductions. These introductions could potentially lead to future funding.
One thing to take into consideration before taking family and friend money are the what ifs. What if the business doesn’t succeed? How will the entrepreneur deal with sitting at a family gathering with someone whose money they have lost? One way to help avoid confusion is to have formal agreements in place. The agreements will clarify the terms, risk, and rewards to the potential investor.
Another way to accept family and friends money is a gift. Crowdfunding is often the vehicle used. It builds on the entrepreneur's network trading perks or gifts for monetary contributions to the entrepreneur’s idea. Many have found this model to work for them. The timeframe is typically 30 to 90 days and the amounts range from $25,000 to $150,000.
Entrepreneurs seeking family and friends money as their initial source of funding can use this as a marketing test. If they don’t understand the idea or fail to invest, then perhaps the idea needs to reevaluated. For many angel investors, it’s a red flag if your idea can’t attract family and friends financing.
An entrepreneur having ‘skin in the game’ is seen as an asset when seeking to fund. If you’re not willing to invest in you, why should others? Make sure you have at least an executive summary and financial projections done. Include in them how the money will be used. Present these to your family and friends as you would any investor. It shows them you are serious.
Be ready to answer questions, do presentations and if a prototype exists; show it. Anything you can do to show what you have already invested into the idea and how the funds invested will be used to grow the idea into a startup into a company. Now, go raise some money.
Bernie Casey truly deserved the title of "Renaissance Man." Casey, who passed away Wednesday at 78, achieved fame and distinction as both an athlete and later a performer and man of the arts. The grace and flair that he displayed on the football field and track later was easily shifted to the passions of painting, poetry and acting.
Casey initially gained fame while at Bowling Green University, where he starred in football and track. He was eventually drafted by the San Francisco 49ers, and spent most of his eight years in the NFL with them, though he was traded to the then LA Rams late in his career. Though he only made one Pro Bowl in 1967, Casey was a steady and reliable wide receiver, and he completed his NFL tenure with 40 touchdown receptions.
However Casey had always deemed himself more a man of arts than an athlete. Upon retirement, he returned to his alma mater, earning a Master's of Fine Arts from Bowling Green. He'd already developed his painting skills, and increasingly Casey also turned to writing, eventually having multiple books of poetry published.
But it was as an actor that Bernie Casey enjoyed a second major stint of praise and recognition. He appeared in 35 films dating from 1969 till his death, beginning with a role in "Guns of the Magnificent Seven," one of a handful of sequels to "The Magnificent Seven."
Casey proved quite versatile over the years. He was in art-house style productions like "The Man Who Fell To Earth," also appeared in "Never Say Never Again," Sean Connery's tongue-in-chief brief return to the role of James Bond, Agent 007.
Depending on personal preference, some fans may view his role in the satirical "I'm Gonna Get You Sucka'" was a high point. Others would argue for "Revenge of the Nerds," while the Sci-Fi freaks would lobby for his role in "Star Trek: Deep Space Nine."
Whatever the case, Bernie Casey made his mark in multiple areas, and leaves behind a solid legacy of achievement and accomplishment, both in athletics and the arts.
According to a story first reported in "The Source," and subsequently confirmed on other websites like Allhiphop.com before going viral and then making it into mainstream publications, Jay-Z turned down an invitation to be guest performer for the 2018 Super Bowl halftime show. This is one of the prime showcases for any performer, one that gives them a chance to be seen before a worldwide audience that has at times topped the 100 million mark.
But that made no difference to Jay-Z, who a few weeks ago publicly expressed his support for and solidarity with former San Francisco 49ers quarterback Colin Kaepernick.
Kaepernick has been mostly ignored the entire preseason by NFL teams, getting only one visit with the Seattle Seahawks. While head coach Pete Carroll later expressed his belief that Kaepernick deserved to be on a team, the Seahawks ultimately passed on him.
The same thing later happened in Baltimore, where both head coach John Harbaugh and general manager Ozzie Newsome were reportedly ready to offer Kaepernick a contract before the team owner intervened.
The Kaepernick situation has become so obvious that even some of his fellow quarterbacks have publicly discussed it. Cam Newton, Aaron Rodgers and Tom Brady each has said they feel Kaepernick should be a team.
While Jay-Z hasn't yet publicly disclosed his reasons for turning down the NFL, it is quite interesting in light of the fact that his wife Beyoncé appeared at Super Bowl 50. Michael and Janet Jackson, as well as Prince have been previous halftime performers.
Jay-Z's resume and popularity might have brought the NFL some good news in what's been a rough summer and early fall. Ratings are down on all telecasts, and there's also a boycott going in two different circles.
Several Black fans, upset about the treatment of Kaepernick, have been boycotting all NFL games. Meanwhile on the other side, there are right-wing types angered at what they deem disrespect of the flag and national anthem due to Kaepernick's taking a knee who are also boycotting.
But if the NFL's purpose in not giving Kaepernick a chance to play was trying to silence protest, it has had the opposite effect. Players on such teams as the Philadelphia Eagles and Cleveland Browns have done team protests, while other athletes like Seattle's Michael Bennett and Oakland's Marshawn Lynch are doing their own version of Kaepernick's protest.
Kaepernick reaffirmed last week for anyone who doubted it that he still wants to play, and is ready and willing if any team should choose him.. Meanwhile Jay-Z, who at times over the years has been attacked by more militant/nationalist types for not being more vocal politically, has certainly taken a stand guaranteed to delight some people and anger others..
Quite often I get calls from excited clients that want to go on vacation. They enjoy talking about all the places on the infamous “bucket list”. Once all the qualifying questions are asked and the data is tallied, then comes “this is too expensive!”
So what does it really cost to go on a vacation?????
You can find several articles all over the web and in print covering this subject. It basically breaks down that the average American spends about $1200 per person for a standard 5-7 day vacation give or take. Honestly. It really depends on where and when you travel, how many people are in your travel group and your expectations.
Travelers love to say they want the cheapest option but they want that option to be a 5 star rated vacation. As I like to say you can’t have Champaign taste on a welfare budget! It is very true that you get what you pay for. When devising a budget for a vacation, you first have to ask yourself, “What kind of vacation do I want?” Then make sure your budget matches the vacation you can afford to have. There is no need to go into debt just to get away. With all the stressors in our lives today, we don’t want to add to it. And don’t assume that traveling on a budget takes away from a fantastic enjoyable vacation. Through the 19 years that I was a single parent, I found ways to make trips with my children that fit into my budget. No my lights didn’t get cut off or bills didn’t get paid. For me, travel was key to keeping my sanity. While I didn’t do it every year, I was still able to get away as far as Disney World in Florida on the tightest budget and still enjoy myself.
So how do you really get started?
Make a list. Actually make a couple of lists. The first one should be of all the places you want to visit. The next list should be of dates you can actually take a vacation. This one might be tricky if you have kids or others in your travel party. One thing that drives travel agent nuts is a client who says “I just want to go sometime this year or sometime this summer …” We as agents are here to help you but we can’t make dates up. When searching for your ideal vacation, a parameter has to be set which includes location and exact dates. There are way too many factors to determine when it is the best time to travel. The more information you provide the easier it is for travel agents to pinpoint your best options. Honestly you know what you and your traveling party can do. Everyone has their own idea of what a great vacation is and those ideas are uniquely different.
Next think of what you want to do while there and any experiences or restaurants you must try while visiting. If traveling in a group, make sure everyone is included on the process. We tend to think we all have the same ideas but you’ll find that you may not. Once you’ve got an idea of where and when you want to go, break down each component to determine how much you want to spend.
A vacation consists of the following components:
Transportation includes airfare, car rentals, transfers and local transportation. If you need all of those, that can be a hefty tag. Decide on what forms of transportation you’re going to need for your vacation. Be sure not to forget about transfers to and from the airport or train station connecting to your accommodations. I always check the accommodations I reserve for my clients to see if they offer any type of transportation especially if it’s free. Don’t ever assume anything! You don’t want to be caught stuck at any location with only high priced options available.
Expect to spend anywhere from $250-350 for a plane ticket per each person ages two and above. Understand this is just for budgeting purposes. There are fares that drop or above these amounts depending on location traveling to. We are trying to achieve a starting point and stretch it to what you’re willing to pay.
Car Rentals on the lowest end start at about $250 for about 5 days which equates to roughly $50 a day. If you are not a small car driver than think about adding $100+ to each level of upgrade you want to go. Again remember this is only a starting point and not true figures.
Local transportation can be pretty inexpensive in most cases. I would just round up on your final overall budget to catch this into your pricing.
Accommodations include resorts, hotels, bed and breakfast etc. Decide on what type of accommodations you prefer. Cheap does not always equal safe and clean. Think more of the star rating system than the price system. The lower the star the worst the hotel will be and the lower the price will be. If you want quality, you will have to pay for it. Finding that happy medium comes with what you’re willing to pay. This is where you really need to be specific in your needs. There a hundreds of thousands of hotel and resort options all over the world. Stating what is most important to you helps narrow that search down. Each of your must haves more than likely will affect the price. I would say for nice a 3-4 star location with most of the general amenities plan to spend at least $120-180 per a night. Yes yes there are cheaper options but remember we are estimating a reasonable amount to spend on a nice and pleasant vacation.
Things to think about when choosing a resort or hotel
Number of beds in a room
Separate rooms or privacy (a door or wall separating beds)
Close access to elevators, pools or parking lot
Free parking or transportation
Activities can be just about anything. Wonderful thing about activities is that they can be FREE! This is where that list comes in handy. One thing I like to do for my clients is try to find as many of the entertainment activities they want to experience at the most reasonable price. There is almost always more than one option available which means different pricing. Of course location is a big factor on what is available to do. It’s always a good idea to write down you're must do options first. We all want to maximize our limited time away. I would say that this category can be anywhere from $100 – 800 per person. Large amusement park tickets are going to cost well over $200 per person for a week’s time.
Food is an area you can adjust easily. If you have some unique experiences on your list, plan accordingly. Most vacations can include grocery shopping at reasonable prices. If you want that laid back option, all-inclusive options can be utilized even domestically. I would say you can plan for about $50-100 a day give or take.
Given the figures about, a family of four can expect to spend about $4800-5000 for a week of vacation. Also don’t forget about other expenses that may incur like passport fees, taxes and misc. fees incurred by airlines and resorts. The main thing to think about is that when you put your budget together, the goal is to come under the amount you are willing to spend. You want to be realistic and really put some thought into what you want to spend. You can even go over your last vacation and try to piece together what you spent. What you may find is that you spent well over your current estimation. There are definitely ways to cut cost. Be open and prepared for the available options and you will be able to find the experience that fits your needs.
Traveling can be very rewarding. It creates life lasting memories. Be smart about getting there so you can fully enjoy the journey. Come out to Just Ask Kiky's Sip, Shop & Travel event August 4th to learn more about how you can afford to travel and much more! Visit wwww.justaskkiky.com for details.
Be sure to order your copy of Just Ask Kiky: A Single Parents Guide to Being Broke and Having a Social Life to learn more about saving options to help with planning your next trip. Visit www.justaskkiky.com to purchase!
If you would like Just Ask Kiky to assist you with your next vacation, please contact me at
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Indianapolis, IN 46268
Cancer is such a devastating disease that has claimed so many people. Please join me, and many others as we Walk to celebrate and remember those that have been touched by this dreaded disease.
October 7, 2017 at 5pm. We will do a 5k route with luminaries, starting at military park.
PLEASE join me for a memorable evening.
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Further Adventures in Traveling to Taste Black Wines
By Nicole Kearney
In April, I traveled to beautiful, fun and sunny Miami, Florida. Why do you ask? To be part of a first, the first Black Women in Wine celebration. Marcee Jones, owner of Urban Connoisseur organized and hosted the event. In advance of the event, Celebrity Chefs "Hit Squad" a team of five Black male chefs to the stars tasted 40 wines. Out of the 40, they selected six wines to pair with a six-course meal. Each food pairing would compliment the wine being served. A few dishes were even prepared using the wines.
The trip was one well worth it. I look forward to sharing the next adventure with you.
Sip & Share Wine & Great Times,
Nicole Kearney, MFA
Wine Enthusiast and Founder of Sip & Share Wine: Home & Event Wine Tastings
This is Everything Underground's Online Chronicles Report for the week of May 15-22. These are the five most popular stories on our Facebook page, which is updated daily and spotlights stories, events and personalities undervalued or overlooked by the mainstream media. This week's five most popular stories:
(1) Actor Hill Harper purchases business in Detroit and home in Boston.
(2) Comedian Dave Chappelle apologizes for earlier comments urging people to give Donald Trump a chance.
(3) A Black owned Cognac is coming to America.
(4) Black contractors are shut out of Pro Football Hall of Fame building project in Canton.
(5) Actor/Filmmaker Jordan Peele plans a Jim Crow horror series for HBO.
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